Sanctimonious SilentAgony

gaynotqueer:

roseverbena:

This is what passes for sanity in the “trans” cult:

Okay well enjoy your little sexual identity which involves some sort of sick obsession with the shape of the folds of your partner’s genitals. Your arrogance floors me. I can’t believe that you, as a self-identified male, think you have any…

This deluded individual also provided this massively homophobic gem -

The problem, dipshit, is not that I don’t know what homosexuality means, but that you don’t know what “male” or “female” mean. And as long as we’re talking about denying other people’s rights to decide what they mean for themselves, since I was off-base the first time assuming you’re a rad fem, might I remind you that you’re just a sexually immature little boy who was rejected by daddy too much when you wanted to play ball and would appropriately like vagina if only he had tossed a baseball around with you a few more times. You should seek help for that.

Derp what’s context? 

Buddy, I was showing you how you sound to transphobes.  It would be silly for me to be a homophobe, as I am a lesbian, which you would realize if you were slightly less of a bigoted fuck.  

gaynotqueer:

sanctimonioussilentagony:

gaynotqueer:

sanctimonioussilentagony:

gaynotqueer:

zjemptv:

drunkorexhausted:

You find what hilarious and silly and ridiculous? That you’re being called out on not being a lesbian when you’re actually not a lesbian? Stop telling people you are a lesbian. Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of! Sitting on the fence is totally legit.

The entire “pretendbians” idea is someone’s bizarre obsession with ungendering trans people, even more odd because they’ve only chosen to target lesbian trans women. The whole thing just fascinates me and I like seeing what the hell makes it tick.

What don’t give a shit about your precious jendah identity, because gender is made-up sexist bullshit.  You have a sex, you are biologically male.  That is what matters, not your feeeeling of being a lesbian/female/whatever.  “Lesbian” and “female” are not ideas in some dude’s head.  Female and male are biological realities, not gender identities.  Sex =/= gender.  The pretendbians and the “transfag” fauxmosexuals are being called out because they are appropriative heterosexual impostors pretending to be gay.  Heterosexuals should fuck off and leave our gayhood alone.

Sorry to break it to you, but as a cis lesbian and radical feminist (minus the transphobia bullshit) you do not get to speak for the rest of us.  Do you understand that?  Do you understand that you are not the ambassador of lesbian? Do you really believe that your bigoted, narrow-minded views get to represent the whole of us?  Get over your arrogant, simple-minded self.  If you believe, correctly, might I add, that gender is a construct and an experience rather than a “real thing” by which I assume you mean something physical, concrete, and observable, then you should already have surpassed the ignorant, disgusting viewpoint that gender has something to do with what is between your legs.  And if you’re going to be strictly physical about it, then I challenge you to imagine yourself woken up with a dick between your bigoted legs.  Would you cease to be a lesbian?  Would your experiences of having been a woman and in a relationship with somebody of the same gender cease to have occurred?  If somebody was born with both sets of genitals, what would they then be?  And why the everloving hell do you believe you’re the authority on this?  

Whether you believe it’s valid or not, the transgender movement is about one thing: the right to decide for yourself who and what you are.  And I might remind you that, without this fundamental right, you’d be a girl scared of dudes or rejected by her daddy.  

So kindly fuck off, and if you’re going to continue to harass my girlfriend, enjoy continuing to be made a complete ass of.

Oh please, I’m not harassing your boyfriend, I’m having a conversation with him.  This argument started because I called him out for reblogging a quote from Natalie Reed concerning the Cotton Ceiling.  The Cotton Ceiling is rapey, lesbophobic nonsense.  Calling someone out =/= harassment.  My “stance” is that sex =/= gender.  Gender is cultural, sex is biological.  You are female.  Zachary is male.  Heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.  Lesbians are females attracted other females.  Gay males are males attracted to other males.  Words have meaning.  You are female and your partner is male, thereby making you a heterosexual couple.  I do not believe that gender has anything to do with genitalia.  Furthermore, I am not a female.  I am a gay male.  Did you have the impression that I am female?  Nice assuming that I’m female because I’m trans-critical.

Okay well enjoy your little sexual identity which involves some sort of sick obsession with the shape of the folds of your partner’s genitals.  Your arrogance floors me.  I can’t believe that you, as a self-identified male, think you have any fucking right to speak for lesbians and especially women.  You sexist fuck.  There aren’t cursewords filthy enough to describe how appropriating and disgusting you are.  But I guess, as a man, you probably can’t really help yourself.  You have been raised to believe your opinions are valid because they came out of your penis.

You are a vulgar homophobe.  You erase gay male and lesbian existence.  This is disgusting.  Stop heaping hate and scorn on us for existing.  Stop calling us “sick” for existing while homosexual.  You are a hateful homophobic bigot.  I have every right to defend the reality of homosexuality, while you deny it and redefine it into oblivion.  Gay males are attracted to males, by definition.  Lesbians are attracted to females, by definition.  This is what homosexuality means.  Transjacktivists and their apologists have no right to obliterate our homosexuality.  Stop being homophobic.  Stop appropriating and erasing gay and lesbian reality.

The problem, dipshit, is not that I don’t know what homosexuality means, but that you don’t know what “male” or “female” mean.  And as long as we’re talking about denying other people’s rights to decide what they mean for themselves, since I was off-base the first time assuming you’re a rad fem, might I remind you that you’re just a sexually immature little boy who was rejected by daddy too much when you wanted to play ball and would appropriately like vagina if only he had tossed a baseball around with you a few more times.  You should seek help for that.

gaynotqueer:

sanctimonioussilentagony:

gaynotqueer:

sanctimonioussilentagony:

gaynotqueer:

zjemptv:

drunkorexhausted:

You find what hilarious and silly and ridiculous? That you’re being called out on not being a lesbian when you’re actually not a lesbian? Stop telling people you are a lesbian. Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of! Sitting on the fence is totally legit.

The entire “pretendbians” idea is someone’s bizarre obsession with ungendering trans people, even more odd because they’ve only chosen to target lesbian trans women. The whole thing just fascinates me and I like seeing what the hell makes it tick.

What don’t give a shit about your precious jendah identity, because gender is made-up sexist bullshit.  You have a sex, you are biologically male.  That is what matters, not your feeeeling of being a lesbian/female/whatever.  “Lesbian” and “female” are not ideas in some dude’s head.  Female and male are biological realities, not gender identities.  Sex =/= gender.  The pretendbians and the “transfag” fauxmosexuals are being called out because they are appropriative heterosexual impostors pretending to be gay.  Heterosexuals should fuck off and leave our gayhood alone.

Sorry to break it to you, but as a cis lesbian and radical feminist (minus the transphobia bullshit) you do not get to speak for the rest of us.  Do you understand that?  Do you understand that you are not the ambassador of lesbian? Do you really believe that your bigoted, narrow-minded views get to represent the whole of us?  Get over your arrogant, simple-minded self.  If you believe, correctly, might I add, that gender is a construct and an experience rather than a “real thing” by which I assume you mean something physical, concrete, and observable, then you should already have surpassed the ignorant, disgusting viewpoint that gender has something to do with what is between your legs.  And if you’re going to be strictly physical about it, then I challenge you to imagine yourself woken up with a dick between your bigoted legs.  Would you cease to be a lesbian?  Would your experiences of having been a woman and in a relationship with somebody of the same gender cease to have occurred?  If somebody was born with both sets of genitals, what would they then be?  And why the everloving hell do you believe you’re the authority on this?  

Whether you believe it’s valid or not, the transgender movement is about one thing: the right to decide for yourself who and what you are.  And I might remind you that, without this fundamental right, you’d be a girl scared of dudes or rejected by her daddy.  

So kindly fuck off, and if you’re going to continue to harass my girlfriend, enjoy continuing to be made a complete ass of.

Oh please, I’m not harassing your boyfriend, I’m having a conversation with him.  This argument started because I called him out for reblogging a quote from Natalie Reed concerning the Cotton Ceiling.  The Cotton Ceiling is rapey, lesbophobic nonsense.  Calling someone out =/= harassment.  My “stance” is that sex =/= gender.  Gender is cultural, sex is biological.  You are female.  Zachary is male.  Heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.  Lesbians are females attracted other females.  Gay males are males attracted to other males.  Words have meaning.  You are female and your partner is male, thereby making you a heterosexual couple.  I do not believe that gender has anything to do with genitalia.  Furthermore, I am not a female.  I am a gay male.  Did you have the impression that I am female?  Nice assuming that I’m female because I’m trans-critical.

Okay well enjoy your little sexual identity which involves some sort of sick obsession with the shape of the folds of your partner’s genitals.  Your arrogance floors me.  I can’t believe that you, as a self-identified male, think you have any fucking right to speak for lesbians and especially women.  You sexist fuck.  There aren’t cursewords filthy enough to describe how appropriating and disgusting you are.  But I guess, as a man, you probably can’t really help yourself.  You have been raised to believe your opinions are valid because they came out of your penis.

You are a vulgar homophobe.  You erase gay male and lesbian existence.  This is disgusting.  Stop heaping hate and scorn on us for existing.  Stop calling us “sick” for existing while homosexual.  You are a hateful homophobic bigot.  I have every right to defend the reality of homosexuality, while you deny it and redefine it into oblivion.  Gay males are attracted to males, by definition.  Lesbians are attracted to females, by definition.  This is what homosexuality means.  Transjacktivists and their apologists have no right to obliterate our homosexuality.  Stop being homophobic.  Stop appropriating and erasing gay and lesbian reality.

The problem, dipshit, is not that I don’t know what homosexuality means, but that you don’t know what “male” or “female” mean.  And as long as we’re talking about denying other people’s rights to decide what they mean for themselves, since I was off-base the first time assuming you’re a rad fem, might I remind you that you’re just a sexually immature little boy who was rejected by daddy too much when you wanted to play ball and would appropriately like vagina if only he had tossed a baseball around with you a few more times.  You should seek help for that.

gaynotqueer:

sanctimonioussilentagony:

gaynotqueer:

zjemptv:

drunkorexhausted:

You find what hilarious and silly and ridiculous? That you’re being called out on not being a lesbian when you’re actually not a lesbian? Stop telling people you are a lesbian. Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of! Sitting on the fence is totally legit.

The entire “pretendbians” idea is someone’s bizarre obsession with ungendering trans people, even more odd because they’ve only chosen to target lesbian trans women. The whole thing just fascinates me and I like seeing what the hell makes it tick.

What don’t give a shit about your precious jendah identity, because gender is made-up sexist bullshit.  You have a sex, you are biologically male.  That is what matters, not your feeeeling of being a lesbian/female/whatever.  “Lesbian” and “female” are not ideas in some dude’s head.  Female and male are biological realities, not gender identities.  Sex =/= gender.  The pretendbians and the “transfag” fauxmosexuals are being called out because they are appropriative heterosexual impostors pretending to be gay.  Heterosexuals should fuck off and leave our gayhood alone.

Sorry to break it to you, but as a cis lesbian and radical feminist (minus the transphobia bullshit) you do not get to speak for the rest of us.  Do you understand that?  Do you understand that you are not the ambassador of lesbian? Do you really believe that your bigoted, narrow-minded views get to represent the whole of us?  Get over your arrogant, simple-minded self.  If you believe, correctly, might I add, that gender is a construct and an experience rather than a “real thing” by which I assume you mean something physical, concrete, and observable, then you should already have surpassed the ignorant, disgusting viewpoint that gender has something to do with what is between your legs.  And if you’re going to be strictly physical about it, then I challenge you to imagine yourself woken up with a dick between your bigoted legs.  Would you cease to be a lesbian?  Would your experiences of having been a woman and in a relationship with somebody of the same gender cease to have occurred?  If somebody was born with both sets of genitals, what would they then be?  And why the everloving hell do you believe you’re the authority on this?  

Whether you believe it’s valid or not, the transgender movement is about one thing: the right to decide for yourself who and what you are.  And I might remind you that, without this fundamental right, you’d be a girl scared of dudes or rejected by her daddy.  

So kindly fuck off, and if you’re going to continue to harass my girlfriend, enjoy continuing to be made a complete ass of.

Oh please, I’m not harassing your boyfriend, I’m having a conversation with him.  This argument started because I called him out for reblogging a quote from Natalie Reed concerning the Cotton Ceiling.  The Cotton Ceiling is rapey, lesbophobic nonsense.  Calling someone out =/= harassment.  My “stance” is that sex =/= gender.  Gender is cultural, sex is biological.  You are female.  Zachary is male.  Heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.  Lesbians are females attracted other females.  Gay males are males attracted to other males.  Words have meaning.  You are female and your partner is male, thereby making you a heterosexual couple.  I do not believe that gender has anything to do with genitalia.  Furthermore, I am not a female.  I am a gay male.  Did you have the impression that I am female?  Nice assuming that I’m female because I’m trans-critical.

Okay well enjoy your little sexual identity which involves some sort of sick obsession with the shape of the folds of your partner’s genitals.  Your arrogance floors me.  I can’t believe that you, as a self-identified male, think you have any fucking right to speak for lesbians and especially women.  You sexist fuck.  There aren’t cursewords filthy enough to describe how appropriating and disgusting you are.  But I guess, as a man, you probably can’t really help yourself.  You have been raised to believe your opinions are valid because they came out of your penis.

gaynotqueer:

zjemptv:

drunkorexhausted:

You find what hilarious and silly and ridiculous? That you’re being called out on not being a lesbian when you’re actually not a lesbian? Stop telling people you are a lesbian. Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of! Sitting on the fence is totally legit.

The entire “pretendbians” idea is someone’s bizarre obsession with ungendering trans people, even more odd because they’ve only chosen to target lesbian trans women. The whole thing just fascinates me and I like seeing what the hell makes it tick.

What don’t give a shit about your precious jendah identity, because gender is made-up sexist bullshit.  You have a sex, you are biologically male.  That is what matters, not your feeeeling of being a lesbian/female/whatever.  “Lesbian” and “female” are not ideas in some dude’s head.  Female and male are biological realities, not gender identities.  Sex =/= gender.  The pretendbians and the “transfag” fauxmosexuals are being called out because they are appropriative heterosexual impostors pretending to be gay.  Heterosexuals should fuck off and leave our gayhood alone.

Sorry to break it to you, but as a cis lesbian and radical feminist (minus the transphobia bullshit) you do not get to speak for the rest of us.  Do you understand that?  Do you understand that you are not the ambassador of lesbian? Do you really believe that your bigoted, narrow-minded views get to represent the whole of us?  Get over your arrogant, simple-minded self.  If you believe, correctly, might I add, that gender is a construct and an experience rather than a “real thing” by which I assume you mean something physical, concrete, and observable, then you should already have surpassed the ignorant, disgusting viewpoint that gender has something to do with what is between your legs.  And if you’re going to be strictly physical about it, then I challenge you to imagine yourself woken up with a dick between your bigoted legs.  Would you cease to be a lesbian?  Would your experiences of having been a woman and in a relationship with somebody of the same gender cease to have occurred?  If somebody was born with both sets of genitals, what would they then be?  And why the everloving hell do you believe you’re the authority on this?  

Whether you believe it’s valid or not, the transgender movement is about one thing: the right to decide for yourself who and what you are.  And I might remind you that, without this fundamental right, you’d be a girl scared of dudes or rejected by her daddy.  

So kindly fuck off, and if you’re going to continue to harass my girlfriend, enjoy continuing to be made a complete ass of.

She mocks trans women.  How very brave.  I’m sure nobody ever ever thought of that before.  

An online friend convinced me to write a letter to Cece McDonald.  I’ll admit, I didn’t know what to write at first, but I’m going to start thinking about it throughout the day and maybe even write regularly.  I don’t know her, but it couldn’t hurt for her to hear from people outside.  I’ll probably just send jokes.

I don’t have an opinion about whether Cece should or should not be in jail.  I think jail itself is a primitive sort of concept and I hesitate to make any sort of value judgment on such things.  I think it’s probable that she did commit the crime of which she is accused.  What the appropriate “punishment” for something like that is, if indeed punishment is the best way to handle such things, I do not know.  Her trial seems unfair from my perspective, but I’m not a legal expert.  In any case, I’m not making a personal judgment on any of these things.

I do, however, know that she’s in solitary confinement because cissexism.  Solitary confinement is torture.  Cissexism is bullshit.  So I’m writing, because I’d want people to write to me.  And I hope you’ll join me.